When you say no to life. You are not living.

Tonight I saw the movie Yes Man. And during the movie it occurred to me that i should try saying Yes more to things. I also realized the correlation between the book "Outliers" and Yes Man, You can only be successful in life if You allow the situation to present itself. You must have somewhat a blind faith in some decisions in life. So this journey is not just a journey for Success, it is now for Happiness also. Ive been known as a rather serious and mean guy, maybe because I am not allowing myself to be a fun guy. I am reading the book "Blink" right now by Malcolm Gladwell, and he speaks about the expressions of your face are in correlation with your attitude, mostly it is not under your control. So you may be painting that smile on your face everyday, but its not gonna make you any happier on the inside. That is your choice. Remember 'When you say no to life, you are not living' 

Are you willing to change yourself? Yes or No?